They say time heals all wounds but for my daughter, time was
more like a virus bug that drained the very soul out of her. She began to lock
herself in her room. As a father with a growing up daughter, I thought this was
normal. I thought kids like this needed their space, so we had a closed door
policy. Knock before you enter, you can't enter until you get an "OK"
to go in. My wife and I would always get rejected.
On this specific night, my wife was out of town to tend to
her grandmother who fell ill and was hospitalized. I got home late that night
from work. My daughter was still up. I can hear the music coming from her room.
I knock.
“Can I come in?”
She turns off the music.
I can hear her walk to the door. She answers.
“No, no you may not enter.”
I don’t hear her walk away from the door. I figure it’ll be
fine, it’s late, I need some sleep. I walk away. My room was a few doors down.
In the back from behind her door, she speaks.
“Have a good night.”
I think nothing of it.
The next day my wife wakes me up. I’d over slept 5 hours. My
daughter hadn’t been home all night, she’d spent the night over at her friends.
Whoever I talked to the night before, was not my daughter. From that day on,
there were to be no more closed door policy. Why? I guess, you just never know
what’ll be on the otherside.
I guess I learned the hard way.
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